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Not good news my friends

April 12, 2023 11:45AM
They opened me up at 530 am and I was awake by 12pm. I knew something was wrong when i awoke that soon. The doctor came in and told me they didn't take out my bladder because the cancer has spread to my side and looks like "a slab of concrete." They closed me up and now tell me I have a 20 or 30% chance and my only hope is chemo.

Thanks too everyone that took the time to think of me and send good vibes. It's in God's hands now.
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  Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Ram4life1650April 06, 2023 10:26AM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Classicalwit496April 06, 2023 10:39AM

  Thoughts, prayers and best wishes with you..

sstrams397April 06, 2023 10:45AM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Old Goat307April 06, 2023 12:04PM

  Certainly will be praying for ya! nm

BlueRidgeHorns405April 06, 2023 12:14PM

  Re: Certainly will be praying for ya! nm

BerendsenRam353April 06, 2023 12:28PM

  Best wishes for you my friend!

Ramsdude577April 06, 2023 12:59PM

  I never assisted on that surgery

NewMexicoRam339April 06, 2023 01:17PM

  Re: I never assisted on that surgery

Ram4life643April 06, 2023 01:24PM

  Ok then, there's a number of internet articles regarding that surgery with its associated risks.

NewMexicoRam595April 06, 2023 06:51PM

  This is the best article I found on short term and long term complication rates

NewMexicoRam449April 06, 2023 06:59PM

  Thanks so much NewMexico

Ram4life281April 06, 2023 08:03PM

  Amazing

JimYoungblood53254April 11, 2023 02:47PM

  Prayers are with you, brother. (NM)

Thirtymac, The Intrepid Ram375April 06, 2023 01:29PM

  Are you asking about an ileal conduit?

MamaRAMa323April 06, 2023 07:55PM

  Yes that's awesome to hear

Ram4life293April 06, 2023 08:01PM

  Re: Yes that's awesome to hear

MamaRAMa386April 08, 2023 06:12AM

  Re: Yes that's awesome to hear

Ram4life361April 08, 2023 10:05AM

  Re: Yes that's awesome to hear

LSURAM291April 08, 2023 06:37AM

  I know a girl who had just about all of her plumbing redone.

Ramgator278April 07, 2023 02:52AM

  Still Praying for you but adding in prayers for the Doctors

David Deacon361April 07, 2023 04:03AM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

jim beam405April 07, 2023 06:14AM

  No idea

mexram334April 07, 2023 06:46AM

  Thanks everyone for the replies and prayers

Ram4life299April 07, 2023 05:22PM

  Post like this or and "replies" like this

Ramsdude302April 08, 2023 04:39AM

  I will dude

Ram4life344April 08, 2023 12:19PM

  Re: Prayers brother!

LaloRam393April 07, 2023 08:34PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Ramrooter657April 08, 2023 05:36AM

  will be thinking about you man......

Ramsrule365April 08, 2023 10:33AM

  Thanks Bucky

Ram4life329April 08, 2023 10:40AM

  Re: Thanks Bucky

MamaRAMa304April 08, 2023 10:55AM

  Sorry about that

Ram4life334April 08, 2023 11:41AM

  Re: Thanks Bucky

Ramstien412April 08, 2023 01:25PM

  Very true

Ram4life294April 08, 2023 01:36PM

  Stay strong little buddy

ferragamo79271April 08, 2023 01:51PM

  Re: Stay strong little buddy

Ram4life320April 08, 2023 02:24PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

73Ram311April 08, 2023 03:17PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Crazylegs365April 09, 2023 06:49AM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

BeachBoy303April 10, 2023 01:41AM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Stafford9268April 10, 2023 06:00AM

  you. are in my thoughts and prayers

Deadpool309April 10, 2023 07:41AM

  Re: you. are in my thoughts and prayers

Ram4life260April 11, 2023 12:16PM

  hang in there my friend...you got this!!!

Rampage2k312April 10, 2023 11:32AM

  Re: hang in there my friend...you got this!!!

Ram4life351April 10, 2023 11:37AM

  Re: hang in there my friend...you got this!!!

Ramstien384April 11, 2023 03:57AM

  Yup, there are some really good hearted people here!

Ramsdude326April 11, 2023 04:14AM

  keep up the fight nm

21Dog368April 11, 2023 03:40AM

  Surgery tomorrow

Ram4life327April 11, 2023 11:00AM

  Re: Surgery tomorrow

stlramz606April 11, 2023 11:23AM

  Try to stay calm and confident Brother!

Ramsdude339April 11, 2023 11:51AM

  Re: Try to stay calm and confident Brother!

Ram4life298April 11, 2023 12:14PM

  Re: Surgery tomorrow

MamaRAMa243April 11, 2023 11:55AM

  Re: Surgery tomorrow

Ram4life286April 11, 2023 12:15PM

  Re: Surgery tomorrow

BerendsenRam364April 11, 2023 12:07PM

  Tell your boys thx

Ram4life440April 11, 2023 12:32PM

  I was gonna try and wish you well..

sstrams606April 11, 2023 01:20PM

  Re: I was gonna try and wish you well..

Ram4life592April 11, 2023 01:26PM

  Awww.. thanks so much, man..

sstrams317April 11, 2023 01:41PM

  Let's kick a$$

Ram4life554April 11, 2023 01:55PM

  Haha I've gotten in a few scraps over the years..

sstrams255April 11, 2023 02:01PM

  Re: Haha I've gotten in a few scraps over the years..

Ramstien380April 11, 2023 02:14PM

  Re: Haha I've gotten in a few scraps over the years..

Ram4life271April 11, 2023 02:40PM

  I think you can block the poster, but have never tried that, either....

sstrams243April 11, 2023 04:10PM

  I haven't tried that just yet..

sstrams319April 11, 2023 04:05PM

  Nervous is good, it would be abnormal.....

roman18237April 11, 2023 03:18PM

  Re: Surgery tomorrow

The Professor621April 11, 2023 06:40PM

  Thanks to everyone and I mean everyone

Ram4life348April 11, 2023 12:14PM

  Re: Thanks to everyone and I mean everyone

BerendsenRam290April 11, 2023 12:15PM

  Best Wishes...You're Going To Do Fine! (nm)

ramBRO248April 11, 2023 12:37PM

  Thx!

Ram4life388April 11, 2023 01:56PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

AlbaNY_Ram243April 11, 2023 01:23PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Ramstien257April 11, 2023 01:49PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Ram4life471April 11, 2023 01:52PM

  You have my best wishes...

RAMbler298April 11, 2023 01:51PM

  Re: thankful to you Rambler

Ram4life320April 11, 2023 01:53PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

chico n da rams285April 11, 2023 03:26PM

  Re: Question, I have surgery in 6 days

Ridgewood Ram372April 11, 2023 03:29PM

  It's an 8 hour surgery

Ram4life493April 11, 2023 04:01PM

  Be well friend, we are all pulling for you

Rams Junkie308April 11, 2023 06:06PM

  Re: Be well friend, we are all pulling for you

Wisconsinram1382April 11, 2023 06:15PM

  Hour and a half before I leave

Ram4life391April 11, 2023 07:46PM

  Re: Hour and a half before I leave

SoCalRAMatic264April 12, 2023 02:02AM

  Re: Hour and a half before I leave

Ramstien278April 12, 2023 03:55AM

  Re: Hour and a half before I leave

Classicalwit255April 12, 2023 04:17AM

  Re: It's an 8 hour surgery

21Dog281April 12, 2023 02:26AM

  Wonder how Ram4life is doing..

sstrams552April 12, 2023 08:02AM

  Re: Wonder how Ram4life is doing..

BerendsenRam308April 12, 2023 08:09AM

  ↑↑↑ +1000 ↑↑↑

Ramsdude360April 12, 2023 08:48AM

  That is absolutely what will happen..

sstrams300April 12, 2023 08:53AM

  Not good news my friends

Ram4life383April 12, 2023 11:45AM

  Re: Not good news my friends

73Ram290April 12, 2023 11:49AM

  Still praying for you brother!

Ramsdude283April 12, 2023 11:59AM

  +1

ramBRO279April 12, 2023 12:03PM

  Re: +1

BerendsenRam267April 12, 2023 12:10PM

  Re: +1

21Dog277April 12, 2023 02:45PM

  +1

Ridgewood Ram247April 12, 2023 02:17PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

The Professor293April 12, 2023 01:03PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

stlramz261April 12, 2023 02:12PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

Ramstien277April 12, 2023 02:22PM

  Awful news.

JimYoungblood53258April 12, 2023 02:47PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

3030257April 12, 2023 02:52PM

  Am so sorry to hear that...

sstrams262April 12, 2023 02:55PM

  That sucks......

roman18268April 12, 2023 03:15PM

  Continuing to pray for ya!

BlueRidgeHorns289April 12, 2023 03:50PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

Crazylegs264April 12, 2023 04:38PM

  13 years ago, my best friend was torn up with lung cancer. He was given 20-25%

Ramgator267April 12, 2023 04:49PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

MamaRAMa269April 12, 2023 06:05PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

Ekern55623April 12, 2023 09:35PM

  Re: Not good news my friends

David Deacon268April 13, 2023 04:04AM

  Good verse, Deacon

NewMexicoRam253April 13, 2023 09:48AM

  Jeremiah 33:6

ferragamo79599April 13, 2023 07:53AM

  I have not given up on praying

NewMexicoRam260April 13, 2023 09:46AM

  Jeremiah 17:14

Deadpool294April 13, 2023 09:04AM

  Re: Jeremiah 17:14

LSURAM279April 13, 2023 09:09AM