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I'm learning to enjoy the journey

May 04, 2019 08:05AM
Last year was kind of a turning point for me (I hope). I'm learning to just enjoy each game. I'm learning to enjoy the drama as it unfolds. I'm learning to remember that each member of the team is a human being who has a life outside of the stadium and who really sacrifices their body--both muscles and mind--to play a game for my enjoyment as a fan. That's a pretty big deal. So, I'm learning to be thankful to God for the fun of the game, even when the ball bounces the other way.

Imagine if you lived your own personal life expecting to be the "champion" of everything you do. What a giant disappointment most days, most months, most years would be. So often we're outdone, outshined, outworked by our peers. We set goals for ourselves that we don't or can't keep. Most of us "lose," or at the very least, there are no clear winners, more than we are the champion of the things we do.

The point of my analogy is: expecting the Rams to win the Super Bowl, or expecting them to win every/most games in high fashion, or expecting any kind of specific result is setting yourself up for frustration rather than fun. And I'm preaching at myself, because that's how I was after our "shooting star" years of 99-01.

Maybe that's not what you're doing. That's good. I mean it. And like roman said, it's OK if you want to pick apart the little details of this or that. But, let's say, for instance, Gurley's knee is complete toast. Well... there's literally nothing I can do about it. It doesn't help me one bit to worry about it. So, for my personal part which you don't need to follow, fretting about it, posting about it ad infinitum, etc... doesn't seem to be worth the time or mental energy.
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  All of this deal with TGIII...

roman181199May 02, 2019 12:21PM

  Great post!

NewMexicoRam277May 02, 2019 12:33PM

  Re: It’s not only that he played bad...

dzrams431May 02, 2019 12:33PM

  Worry...worry...worry....

roman18307May 02, 2019 12:51PM

  Re: Worry...worry...worry....

Rams43357May 02, 2019 01:42PM

  Re: Well said! ....NM

dzrams212May 02, 2019 03:05PM

  Some Ram fans seem to imagine things...

L.A.Rams279May 02, 2019 12:57PM

  Re: Some Ram fans seem to imagine things...

Tony Romas292May 03, 2019 03:59AM

  Starting QB's are competitors, not chess pieces

EternalHorns287May 04, 2019 07:40AM

  Here is the info on Warner...

L.A.Rams224May 04, 2019 12:48PM

  Some people would have you believe . . .

LBRamsFan296May 02, 2019 01:30PM

  Get your point..... Gurley is on a cane...

roman18285May 02, 2019 02:52PM

  I hear you, roman.

Saguaro225May 03, 2019 11:17AM

  Just to note....

JamesJM237May 03, 2019 11:44AM

  Re: Where is the doom and gloom?

dzrams244May 03, 2019 11:47AM

  Don't get me involved in this discussion...

jemach220May 04, 2019 08:13AM

  Re: Where is the doom and gloom?

zn258May 04, 2019 04:56PM

  Our OL was exposed to the world in SB

max304May 02, 2019 02:51PM

  Re: Our OL was exposed to the world in SB

bigjimram21263May 02, 2019 09:32PM

  Re: Our OL was exposed to the world in SB

Classicalwit261May 03, 2019 08:12PM

  Re: Finally- sanity returns: thanks :)

Steve274May 02, 2019 09:57PM

  that;s not the whole story though

zn355May 02, 2019 10:05PM

  true

joram248May 03, 2019 02:39AM

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David Deacon249May 03, 2019 03:53AM

  My only really caveat is the OL

Atlantic Ram280May 03, 2019 07:50AM

  I'm learning to enjoy the journey

EternalHorns310May 04, 2019 08:05AM

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zn370May 04, 2019 06:14PM

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zn219May 05, 2019 02:38PM

  Re: Winning Football starts with the OLINE and DLINE.

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AlbaNY_Ram244May 05, 2019 06:46AM

  Can't speak for any one.....

roman18259May 05, 2019 08:46AM

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zn382May 05, 2019 09:34AM

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