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Thank you, Aries..

July 25, 2024 09:01AM
Yes, she needed to know.. it must have been brutal not knowing for two weeks.. I was just so sad being the one to tell her.. she obviously had do e everything she could to help him.. sometimes it's just too late..

I'm so sorry you went through a similar issue with your wife.. yes, my brother, had he regained consciousness, would still have advanced Hodgkins Lymphoma and a massive infection and probably needed a liver er transplant.. quality of life would have been low and he'd have needed round the clock care - if he even survived.. he clearly didn't want to be kept alive if there was no chance, and there really wasn't.. so it was a fairly easy decision for me, as well.. I'm so sorry you went through a similar issue.. it's so difficult to make that call no matter how easy the decision is.. you're ending soneo es life.. their path, your relationship to them.. everything they are and have worked toward is over.. it's so very hard..

Thank you, again.. I really appreciate your story and kind words..



Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..


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  Waiting for a call from the doctor

sstrams463July 19, 2024 09:51AM

  Re: Waiting for a call from the doctor

SeattleRam144July 19, 2024 10:21AM

  Re: Waiting for a call from the doctor

SeattleRam137July 19, 2024 10:25AM

  WOW....so sorry

ferragamo79164July 19, 2024 02:13PM

  I had the final say to stop my Dad's cancer treatments.

Ramgator144July 19, 2024 02:18PM

  He is ready to go.

sstrams166July 19, 2024 02:28PM

  A few things I'd consider and did with my Dad.

Ramgator137July 20, 2024 05:33AM

  Does he have a Will ?

waterfield149July 19, 2024 03:32PM

  I think so, but not sure..

sstrams147July 19, 2024 04:24PM

  That's gotta be the worst story I have ever heard......

roman18155July 20, 2024 06:44AM

  Re: Waiting for a call from the doctor

IowaRam154July 20, 2024 07:43AM

  Talk about surreal..

sstrams162July 20, 2024 10:05AM

  so sorry Steve

21Dog200July 20, 2024 12:49PM

  Thanks 21.. having no family, I couldn't either.,

sstrams150July 20, 2024 01:23PM

  Re: Talk about surreal..

MamaRAMa184July 20, 2024 03:52PM

  Thank you so much, Mama..

sstrams127July 20, 2024 09:34PM

  "Good thoughts in your head". That's a wonderful blessing.

Ramgator116July 21, 2024 04:57AM

  Thanks gator.. lot of changes for me this year..

sstrams112July 21, 2024 11:18AM

  Sounds simplistic and cliche...

Ramgator132July 21, 2024 03:15PM

  Thanks man.. imthinkmim actually still in a..

sstrams130July 21, 2024 04:17PM

  Clearing my Brother's house was brutal.

Ramgator140July 21, 2024 05:42PM

  It's gonna be much more difficult..

sstrams224July 22, 2024 03:04AM

  VERY surreal! And always remember...There is NO easy way out of this.

Ramgator153July 20, 2024 04:38PM

  Thank you, Gator..

sstrams112July 20, 2024 09:36PM

  My brother passed away at 7:30 pm..

sstrams130July 20, 2024 09:38PM

  Only brother ?

IowaRam108July 21, 2024 04:14AM

  Yes, no other siblings..

sstrams138July 21, 2024 07:33AM

  So very sorry but it IS a blessing.

Ramgator141July 21, 2024 04:46AM

  I know.. it was the right call..

sstrams120July 21, 2024 07:35AM

  Re: My brother passed away at 7:30 pm..

canadaram122July 21, 2024 05:10AM

  Thanks Canada..

sstrams122July 21, 2024 07:35AM

  Re: My brother passed away at 7:30 pm..

waterfield162July 22, 2024 03:54PM

  Thank you, waterfield..

sstrams212July 22, 2024 04:24PM

  You're in our thoughts.

DaJudge122July 22, 2024 10:08AM

  Thanks Judge..

sstrams115July 22, 2024 04:25PM

  When it rains..

sstrams149July 25, 2024 02:38AM

  Re: When it rains..

MamaRAMa115July 25, 2024 05:28AM

  Rainbows,,. I like it, Mama..

sstrams114July 25, 2024 08:43AM

  In some ways.....

Ramgator132July 25, 2024 05:35AM

  Thank you, gator.,

sstrams125July 25, 2024 08:51AM

  You are a GREAT man...HUMAN BEING.

Ramgator114July 25, 2024 03:09PM

  BESIDES!!!!!!!!!

Ramgator123July 25, 2024 03:11PM

  One windmill hair guitar solo coming up!

sstrams107July 25, 2024 04:05PM

  My Kazoo solos made Stevie Nicks forget about,,,,,

Ramgator103July 25, 2024 04:43PM

  Yeah.. me!

sstrams115July 25, 2024 05:38PM

  Thank you so much, gator.. that was amazing for me to read..

sstrams118July 25, 2024 04:04PM

  Re: When it rains..

Aries158July 25, 2024 06:30AM

  Thank you, Aries..

sstrams112July 25, 2024 09:01AM

  Re: Waiting for a call from the doctor

ScRAM115July 27, 2024 04:59PM