Yes, she needed to know.. it must have been brutal not knowing for two weeks.. I was just so sad being the one to tell her.. she obviously had do e everything she could to help him.. sometimes it's just too late..
I'm so sorry you went through a similar issue with your wife.. yes, my brother, had he regained consciousness, would still have advanced Hodgkins Lymphoma and a massive infection and probably needed a liver er transplant.. quality of life would have been low and he'd have needed round the clock care - if he even survived.. he clearly didn't want to be kept alive if there was no chance, and there really wasn't.. so it was a fairly easy decision for me, as well.. I'm so sorry you went through a similar issue.. it's so difficult to make that call no matter how easy the decision is.. you're ending soneo es life.. their path, your relationship to them.. everything they are and have worked toward is over.. it's so very hard..
Thank you, again.. I really appreciate your story and kind words..
Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..