Sounds like part of THE Big Man's plan? You might be thinking you are over your head. In fact, I know you are. But I have a feeling you WILL get through all of this. I also think there's a reason why you happened to be there to take such a painful call. As much as it hurt this lady, I bet she has a lot of peace knowing you are where you are to sort out the aftermath. Just a bad bad time all around. I wish I could say more than....Hang in there. But do take all of this just one step...one day at a time. Through it all, do NOT be afraid to look after YOU. Step back and collect yourself when you have too. Man! I do understand . It's an emotional BIT** going through loved ones things. My Wife and I, as we have been boxing up stuff for renovations have been coming across all the stuff I have stashed from my Brother, Dad, Mom and Step Dad. All in the last 13 years. LOL Probably makes ME look like a hoarder. I have 7-8 plastic bins full of stuff that I may never even look at again but cannot bring myself to toss it. It's a last physical connection for me. I'm gonna say it...HANG IN THERE! LOL Don't be afraid to cry, cuss, scream or even laugh, when it HAS to come out.