I do a lot of work on my cars, or jet ski or other mechanical type work around the house, and, as a result, I bang my knuckles and hands a lot, so sometimes I have minor scratches or cuts on my hands.. Every time I go into a surgery or a CR Scan or whatever, whoever's there that's interviewing me ALWAYS asks me, "how did you get those cuts on your hand? Is everything ok at home? Do you feel safe at home? Does your family feel safe with YOU at home?" etc..
One of these days I'm gonna reply, "my family might feel safe, but they're tied up right now"..
Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..