Sending many a good thought/vibe/prayer your and you FIL's way. Sorry to hear about all the bad stuff happening in your life recently.
You're right -- this board is full of great people. From all over the world and all walks of life. I'd like to think we are one big (sometimes a bit dysfunctional) family. But during a few Herdfests I have been honored to meet up with so many great folks who are Rams fans and who make up this place to gather and communicate. Just saying there are a lot of fine people out there who are wishing nothing but the best for you and your family.
And as far as any disagreements go between you and me, your opinion will always > than mine. Certainly anything draft related.
Hang in there! Better times will be ahead for you and your family.