I think it's really hard to "define" what is meant by "Hollywood" in terms of this subject matter. I can think of many male actors who live their lives in ways that do not resemble the Hollywood "perception". In that way that population is really no different than our general pop. except for the fact that all of us "non-Hollywood" people seem to have endless interest in their comings and goings. Hence the success of periodicals like "People" , etc.
I admire you for the ability to laugh at yourself. Self-depracation is good-imo.
