I mean, have you had her since birth? I know that if dogs are taken away from their mothers too early they can have separation anxiety issues for the rest of their lives.. Mauie, our female Beagle, was taken away from her mother too early and every day - four or five times a day she'll grab a blanket and just suck on it for 30 minutes to an hour.. She's ok when we leave her as long as one other dog is home with her.. she would go nuts if she was totally alone..
Am just wondering if Kylo is totally dependent on Ashton being there with her.. its odd that she acts totally different with other people and animals, tho, but I don't know a bunch about cats.. If I can find anything out I'll holler..
Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..