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Am I just getting old or...?

August 22, 2016 09:41PM
When my wife and I were first married we had season tickets at the Coliseum. We were in our 20s and the crowds seemed to be in their 40s and very respectful. Yes there were fans from the opposing teams and yes they were clearly excited and demonstrative when their team did something good. But there never seemed to be an "in your face" about their excitement. In the last two preseason games I've seen Dallas and KC fans turn around and point at Ram fans and exclaim your team sucks and will always suck and it's an in your face aggressive confrontation. And yes I've seen the Ram fans do the same. Additionally these "fans" seem to be in their 20s and 30s and are a much younger crowd than when Barb and I were going to the Coliseum. Even going to the bathroom now you bump into someone and you get the "hey man don't ..and the "stare".

So what has happened in these 50 years? Is it so "cool" to be aggressive? Is it television? The movies? Do young people drink more alcohol than when I was their age? The other night I was sitting in a very expensive part of the Coliseum-thanks to a great Herd member here- and every time the Chiefs did something good he would turn around and get in the face of this family of Ram fans right behind him. So I stood up and this guy came after me. He was in his early 30s and I'm in my 70s. Whats going on?? Is football REALLY that important to some? On the metro there were young Ram fans shoving KC fans inside the train. I met a really nice family from yucaipa on the train and he said he would not bring his family back again.

Last year at Dodger stadium I was given tickets in the right field bleachers for a game against the Giants and I saw at a minimum three fights right in front of me. Is there more alcohol being served than back in the 50s and 60s?

I saw just about every game at the Coliseum in the 50s and 60s and even up to the move to Anaheim and I NEVER saw that many people in their 20s and 30s and that type of aggression between the fans. Is it just something "cool" to be? Or are younger people just angrier than when I was their age? And is that because of their music, tv, social media, what? How did they learn the more aggressive they are the "cooler" they are?

At the game Saturday night there was a KC fan-man and woman--in their 50s who were kind enough to allow my wife to sit in one of their seat because she had purchased a cheap seat and I was sitting on the 50yd line. No problem-they were extremely respectful. On my left were KC fans in their 20s and could not wait to be in my face whenever the Chiefs did something to root for. Like "how long you been a Ram fan-your an idiot ha ha" ! I guess that' cool. Get in the face of a 70 something guy. Again, when I was in my 20s I NEVER saw that at the Coliseum or even at Anaheim. Something has gone on.

Of course there were the Raider games but I don't want to get into that because that was a certain phenomenon that bordered on territorial racism. And that came long after the 50s and 60s.

Any psychologists here that can offer an expert opinion.? I'm no shrink-but I do have an opinion: I think young males (20s-30s-) genuinely believe that the more aggressive they are the more sex they will have. Anyway, that's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.



Edited 4 time(s). Last edit at 08/22/2016 10:14PM by waterfield.
SubjectAuthorViewsPosted

  Am I just getting old or...?

waterfield1300August 22, 2016 09:41PM

  I'll add my 2 cent guess..

sstrams578August 23, 2016 06:22AM

  Re: I'll add my 2 cent guess..

waterfield578August 23, 2016 06:47AM

  It's one of the reasons...

JamesJM590August 23, 2016 07:53AM

  It's an addiction

waterfield535August 23, 2016 08:06AM

  I read that as well...

JamesJM557August 23, 2016 08:09AM

  That's where I feel lucky..

sstrams691August 23, 2016 02:09PM

  many articles on this topic

JoeMad704August 23, 2016 09:10AM

  Thanks for the headache...

JamesJM533August 23, 2016 09:48AM

  Interesting stuff there

waterfield557August 23, 2016 10:15AM

  Re: Interesting stuff there

MamaRAMa618August 23, 2016 12:05PM

  Re: Interesting stuff there

21Dog576August 23, 2016 02:53PM

  Manners

waterfield544August 23, 2016 08:04PM

  Re: Manners

21Dog545August 23, 2016 09:09PM

  Re: Manners

waterfield541August 24, 2016 07:15AM

  Re: Manners

JoeMad542August 24, 2016 09:10AM

  Re: Manners

21Dog525August 24, 2016 10:20AM

  It almost seems to be part of the sport

Atlantic Ram527August 23, 2016 05:11PM

  I think it begins and ends with family

waterfield508August 23, 2016 07:53PM

  as you well know........

21Dog618August 23, 2016 09:11PM

  Re: as you well know........

waterfield549August 24, 2016 09:41AM

  it's called END OF THE EARTH SYNDROME

ferragamo79651August 24, 2016 08:55AM

  Pajamas during the day

waterfield635August 24, 2016 09:38AM

  Re: Pajamas during the day

MamaRAMa556August 24, 2016 01:12PM

  Last Saturday night

waterfield636August 24, 2016 01:15PM

  wow...

Atlantic Ram534August 24, 2016 01:38PM

  Notice.

waterfield560August 24, 2016 01:48PM

  The unpopular answer

LesBaker533August 24, 2016 02:25PM

  Re: The unpopular answer

waterfield498August 24, 2016 03:44PM

  Re: The unpopular answer

waterfield554August 24, 2016 03:51PM

  Lets not forget...

sstrams540August 24, 2016 02:33PM

  Ug that was horrific and I'm glad that "fad" passed

LesBaker510August 24, 2016 03:03PM

  Re: Lets not forget...

waterfield547August 24, 2016 03:54PM

  The punch out game...

sstrams525August 24, 2016 04:13PM

  Re: The punch out game...

waterfield536August 24, 2016 04:16PM

  Dunno waterfield..

sstrams594August 25, 2016 03:52AM

  I agree

LesBaker627August 24, 2016 02:14PM

  Another phenomenon

waterfield579August 24, 2016 04:04PM

  violent in play

JamesJM574August 25, 2016 04:42AM

  My answer and a question -then I'm done

waterfield628August 25, 2016 06:57AM

  America.........is not the greatest country anymore

IowaRam524August 25, 2016 07:09AM

  To really give my opinion on this...

Saguaro584August 25, 2016 08:00AM

  I say it ALL the time...Working for the Jacksonville Fire Dept....

Ramgator540August 25, 2016 08:30AM

  Re: I say it ALL the time...Working for the Jacksonville Fire Dept....

ferragamo79544August 26, 2016 08:06AM