Neither was Hekker I've heard

And if there was a guy that you want to point a camera it it would be him because he's a goofball and funny.

Snead may have asked out, and I can tell you I would if I was on the payroll.

It's a reality show, much of what you see is scripted. Hours and hours and hours of "tape" from a few cameras is edited down for content that is explosive/dramatic/emotional.

Reality TV has almost nothing to do with anything "real". It's just a style of filming and editing.