November 05, 2022 09:20AM
I totally understand the underdog finally getting in a meaningful postseason game and being outclassed.. and your heart goes out to them..

Back in my tennis days, I was playing a tournament and was expected to at least get to the finals (there was one dude that I just could not beat in town) and in the first or second round I played this kid who's mom was there cheering him on.. He wasn't very good, and after a while I started taking it easier on him out of compassion for not only him, but his mom, as well - nobody should see their son get demolished..

Afterward (and I know you were thinking he pulled it together and beat me because I took it easy, but no, pretty sure it was 6-0, 6-0) we met at the net to shake hands and he was crying - lightly.. not boo-hooing, but tears rolling down his face) and I did my best to make him feel better and to try and convince him to keep plugging away.. his mom was tearing up, too, so I just did my best to be a good sport and pat him on the back and be supportive..

I don't remember most of my matches from that time period, but I do remember that one.. As an adult I've often wondered what happened to that kid and others from other instances..

Congrats on your win - hopefully Ashton will be healthy next week and can get the W...



Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..


SubjectAuthorViewsPosted

  Football weather has hit Calif!!!!!!

JamesJM228October 28, 2022 02:42PM

  Know EXACTLY what you mean!

Ramgator134October 28, 2022 02:49PM

  53 in Texas right now..

sstrams80October 28, 2022 06:23PM

  46 here right now

IowaRam110October 28, 2022 06:49PM

  On to round 3 !!!

IowaRam91October 28, 2022 06:47PM

  Well that was ugly...

JamesJM161October 29, 2022 07:53AM

  It's put up or shut up time Attachments

IowaRam84November 03, 2022 01:45PM

  Best of luck..

sstrams76November 03, 2022 02:10PM

  We play tonight...

JamesJM116November 04, 2022 06:28AM

  Ashton Chalabian is unstoppable...

sstrams119November 04, 2022 08:09AM

  quite the culture shock for those boys.........

21Dog83November 04, 2022 10:05AM

  My granddaughter was very happy...

JamesJM73November 04, 2022 10:16AM

  And............we're done Attachments

IowaRam87November 04, 2022 01:45PM

  Thanks Iowa... and sorry for your loss...

JamesJM78November 04, 2022 02:10PM

  Sorry man..

sstrams80November 04, 2022 03:44PM

  OK , another question

IowaRam152November 04, 2022 01:55PM

  That's hard to answer....

JamesJM84November 06, 2022 05:15AM

  I'm off for the game....

JamesJM67November 04, 2022 03:29PM

  Expected a battle... but got an easy win....

JamesJM87November 05, 2022 08:31AM

  Its weird how that sometimes works out..

sstrams151November 05, 2022 09:20AM

  I can very much appreciate your story.....

JamesJM91November 05, 2022 09:52AM

  Sweet, sweet victory today.... Attachments

JamesJM83November 05, 2022 08:44PM

  Awesome.. one win at a time..

sstrams73November 06, 2022 05:29AM