I am so sorry. I have been through a divorce. Even though I know it had to be done and my life got MUCH better afterwards, it still sucks. SST....I don't know the details. None of my business. But it just might help with your health issues. I have always said...FOR ME....the Divorce was a piece of cake. Even with doing child support and other $$$ things. It's the months...YEARS that lead to Divorce that can literally kill you stress wise. It's why I NEVER question anyone who gets divorced and are in a better relationship soon after the divorce. People forget that Marriages are usually over waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay before a Judge says so. Ha! When I broke the news to my Mom, her response was.....What took you so long? That sounds harsh n cold but in many cases, it simply has to be done.

Aries.....If I lost my current Wife, I have no clue what I'd do. I always think of my Grandfather...My Grandmother died in 1952, when she was only 39 years old. My Mom was just 12. My Grandfather was devastated. He never married or even dated another woman till he passed on 30 July 1985. He talked about my Grandmother VERY often. As a Firefighter, I saw tooooo many calls where someone had just lost a Spouse, tragically. You have my thoughts n prayers.

To both of you guys...I hope I did not ramble too much and I hope things get better.