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JamesJM
My enormous expenses do not come about due to lavish gifts... it's just the quantity.

I hear you. I have a sister, 2 brothers, lots of nieces, nephews, great nephews and nieces, and lots of cousins but we are not close. I haven't spent a Christmas with my siblings and their families ever.. We are scattered in different states and we've just come to do our own thing for and with our own immediate families.
I only have hubby, grandson, and 2 adult kids so the quantity is small for me.

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