May I suggest...

moving to Texas? Lot easier to get around.. except during the one 2" snow storm we might get every year.. people here drive like they are immune to the effects of ice and snow on the roads, blowing past me, cutting me off, tailgating me et... which is why our medians and side areas of highways are always littered with cars.. causing me to smirk quite often..

Sorry you went through so much.. true fan, there..

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Friendship is like peeing your pants.. Everybody can see it, but only you can feel the warmth..