admins talk a big game, but they don't back it up

One of the reasons I have often avoided this forum and have decided again to do so is that the admins talk a big game with threats to ban, but they allow bad behavior to go unchecked. In my post, I expressed concerns and backed them up with examples. The replies used terms such as "hate" and "crazy town" to mischaracterize my post. I am sick of such behavior on this forum and how it is tolerated by the admins.