Yeah my fiancee and i will be married next month and are going to start prepping for ram_rally Jr in May lol. I've made it clear that I want to be involved and taking the burden off of her. If Mcvay is a similar type. Imagine working until 3 am, going to bed, and then your baby starts crying at 5. And the wife says "it's your turn tonight, remember?". Lol hope he finds a way to make it work but I see why he might want a break.