February 03, 2021 12:43AM | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 10,493
Status: HOF Inductee
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Ever been fired? Not from your job at McDonald's, but actually fired from a good job? It hurts like heck especially when you didn't see it coming and it's the first time.
But..... when time passes and you look back you realize that it was your own naivety that couldn't read the signs that were the size of neon billboards to everyone else. You didn't notice that dissatisfaction with you, or a negative chemistry between you and your boss or peers or whomever of importance in the company, had grown.
You have two choices. Reflect on it, realize your shortcomings and understand that there wasn't a good guy-bad guy scenario going on. There was a bad fit for whatever reason. And then know what to look for in the future. Grow from it.
Or, blame the other party, stay stuck in your naivety or idealism or arrogance, and see yourself as a victim.
Goff had probably never been fired from anything before. He had never experienced a bad relationship with his boss in his work environment. I truly hope that this fine young man indeed goes to where he says he's "valued" and realizes that this is indeed a new opportunity. Not to stay the same but rather to change, to work to be better than he was at his craft, be watchful, and be mindful of what led to all this in the first place. What is expected of a person in his lofty position by his new employer..... and fulfill that expectation.
There are no victims here. No terrible people with bad intentions. It's called life.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/03/2021 12:44AM by RockRam.
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