I have /had cancer too. I am in remission as of now, so please guy......I feel for you and although you may have had a time limit given to you and I didn't doesn't mean that my life was not of concern for me as well. Actually if you read what I said it was basically enjoy the team right now and don't go negative because going negative doesn't do anything for you, it wastes good time and turns it negative.
I am not your Dad and to be honest don't like that connotation. Please don't throw around this serious issue you have going on. Bless you and your family and friends. Time is precious, even for those without this dreaded cancer that actually many of us have or are going through....death can come in an instant without cancer.......IMO it's best to stay positive, enjoy the team.