Some try really hard at being one too it's amazing. It's much easier to get along with others then not but many are grumpy and difficult and won't change. No use wasting your time with some as they really want to argue and to be difficult unfortunately.
I enjoy making someone laugh or smile like here on our Rams Forum that we enjoy as humor is great as it gets us all away from life.
My brother who has passed was a writer for a lot of his life after getting back from his tour overseas said negativity sells unfortunately. He ended up changing careers because of it. He was easy to get along with. After raising 4 sons this Rams Forum is a blast. Again, they are all Rams Fans! GO RAMS!