My wife would love to travel. We have but not lately. I understand her views-we are not getting younger and there are many lands on her bucket list. Me-OTOH-I'm a homebody. I love my home and neighbors. And maybe I lack the energy I used to have. It's probably the only real friction we have in our marriage-other than she wants to move to Sacramento to be closer to our grand children. We live in a beautiful area in San Juan Capistrano close to the warm ocean-compared to Northern Calif. I love the beach and ocean and diving with my buddies, etc.
So am I selfish James? Help me. I need some marriage counseling. Are you any good at that?