You hear the same thing over and over from ex players. The free agent visits are nice, but in the end it's a business and you go with who will pay you the most. That's who wants you more - the one who writes the biggest check.
As this drags on I'm kind of ok with this going either way. If Sammy leaves we have more money to play with for other areas - possibly going after (overpaying?) for Burton from the Eagles so Sean can have hit true pass catching tight end. , if Sammy stays I think he will put up better numbers this year and he brings a skill set (though not the stats) we will have trouble replacing