I don't want to trade him unless we can get Zack Martin (or OL help of that caliber) and a 2018 high pick and 2019 3rd.

My main concern is the precedent setting nature or this contract disoute. I simply don't want the Rams to make a bad financial decision and spend $20M+ with tons of guaranteed $ while also giving the guy a three year out. AD has to give up something in this equation (either the per annum, the guaranteed $ piece, or sign a long term deal no outs). If he is not willing to do any of those things I think the Rams rescind the offer and start fining AD until he shows up. Right now he is under contract for 2 years + two tags, so he is in no position to demand the world without giving up something.