I met several people doing that AND Chemo....man I didn't need it, but everyone to a tee said I would not go through that again. I pray that's not going to be scheduled. I smoked from 16 till my early 40's no lung cancer. Got Prostate cancer though.... It's really crazy how it happens, like people in their 70's or older still puffing away, others with the drinking issues still moving on......Some people as healthy as they can be get hit with this or that.....
I am sure that she has the best support around, you have a great cancer Center available as well for support medically. Believe this...even with this you are very blessed you both are.....