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Re: Advice from the pub please re: moving

December 04, 2018 12:01PM
Every kid reacts to things differently, and only you know yours well enough to know.

But... it's very common for kids (like the rest of us) to fear the unknown more than the familiar. Odds are, if you point out the advantages she would have in a new home and location, she will have some trepidation, but also some excitement about moving. The more you point out the positive, the more likely she is to welcome more than fear it. And, even if she doesn't ever really feel positive about it, she'll get over it and adjust.

I lived in two houses in the town where I was born (just across the river from sstrams btw), and moved to a new town and apartment when I was 14. I have fond memories of each place. It's never really been about WHERE we lived, as much as family. Sometimes I think it would have been cool to finish high school where I started, but there were a lot of opportunities that would not have existed there. The worst part was we moved from 3 blocks away from both sets of grandparents to 250 miles away, but even so I wouldn't really say I "lost" more than I gained. My parents made a good decision, but I was torn between going toward one thing, and leaving behind another.

Your daughter's life is going to completely change in 8-9 years anyway. Change is inevitable, and I'm sure she'll be okay in the long run, either way. If your wife is strongly opposed to it though, I probably wouldn't do it.

It sounds like you really want to move.



Aries
~Sign of the Rams
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Atlantic Ram52December 04, 2018 09:53AM

  I'm about to do a presentation..

sstrams19December 04, 2018 10:45AM

  I would move

ferragamo7917December 04, 2018 11:39AM

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Atlantic Ram12December 05, 2018 03:01PM

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Aries15December 04, 2018 12:01PM

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Atlantic Ram9December 05, 2018 03:13PM

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sstrams12December 04, 2018 02:17PM

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Atlantic Ram8December 05, 2018 03:32PM

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Rampage2K-14December 05, 2018 10:52AM

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Atlantic Ram7December 05, 2018 03:39PM

  make sure they add the home theater room for you

ferragamo7915December 05, 2018 04:09PM

  That is a definite

Atlantic Ram8December 05, 2018 08:50PM

  Why move to Austin, 79?

sstrams12December 06, 2018 03:23AM

  my sister built a house in Georgetown

ferragamo7912December 06, 2018 08:10AM

  Sweet!

sstrams10December 06, 2018 08:12AM

  You are going to LOVE Austin!!

Aries8December 06, 2018 10:17AM