Her sense of humor! You guys wonder where I get mine. Well..She did tell me YEARS ago, I get it from my Grandfather ( I agree). BUT...I will NEVER EVER forget my Mom's advice the night before I left for Boot Camp...Late night 2 Feb 1986..She told me when things get scary? Think funny thoughts!! I carried that with me the next 6 weeks. It worked so well.........It still holds up 32 years later. (Thought I get a LOT of eye rolls!! COUGHSSTCOUGH.....COUGHRAMBEAUCOUGH) SEE???? Not 36 hours after her death and I'm cracking jokes!! ( ONIONS IN EYE AGAIN)